Divine Intervention

You say you want happiness.

So the Universe (call it what you want) takes a step back, looks at your current situation and assesses whether this is the path to your desired happiness or not. Then the Universe reaches in and tips the scale so that things can be rearranged to give you what you want. To you - in your Ego self, not realizing that you are just a small existence in a bigger picture - it seems that everything in Life is going wrong, nothing is going your way, without ever considering that things in your life are being rearranged in order for you to have that same happiness you initially requested.

You get so worked up and depressed over the things that have now been removed from your life - bad relationships, disloyal friends, a less than suitable job - that you cannot even see the world of opportunity that is about to open its doors to you, because you are so focused on the disruption of the life you had become familiar with. 

I am telling you to check yourself. Just because you were familiar with a circumstance does not mean it was the best circumstance for you. 

So stop. 

Just take a step back and stop. 

Stop trying to get back things that no longer serve a purpose in your life, stop crying over lost relationships that - believe me! - will not matter this time next year... stop getting in the way of letting the Universe do its job in giving you the happiness you asked for. You are only hindering the process... a process that you set in motion with your requests. Take some responsibility, dammit!

When it looks like nothing is going your way, shift your thinking. This upheaval is possibly the catalyst to getting exactly what you want. Think of it as the Universe, or some other force beyond your control, coming in and spring cleaning your life to make room for new and better things. We do it every few months with material possessions, so why can't we accept it with Life circumstances?

I went to see a spiritual man this time last year when my life was at an all-time low. Everything that could go wrong did go wrong. I had also found out news that meant that the person I wanted was no longer mine and - because of an unexpected twist - never would be. 

Father T said something to me that I will always remember, only because it made so much sense the more I thought about it. He said:

"You have been confused as to whether to keep this person in your life or not based on the things he did to you. You have been unable to make a decision to walk away once and for all, even for your own good. So... accept that the Universe made the decision for you."

The Universe made the decision for me. 

We don't always know what is best for us. But one thing is certain, we are always asking for the best. So, if you want to cry and pick up the pieces of a life or relationship you used to have, unable to fathom why it's now over, then do it. But if you choose to do that, then stop asking for better circumstances in your life. It's only then that the Universe will butt out of your business and leave you alone.

If you want better, understand that things need to rearranged in order for this to happen. And in that 'spring cleaning', items in your life will have to be thrown out to make some room. 

Decide now if you can handle that. Then embrace the beauty of what is to come if you can.